Hot & Cold

We as human beings all want different things in life.
Some yearn for materialistic things & others yearn for intangible goods like comfort, acceptance or even love.

For a person like me, I yearn for intangible goods more than anything in the world.

And I am pretty sure I am not the only one who yearns for intangible goods ;)

I'm not sure if it's safe to say that most people wants to be accepted for the way they are but it is one of the many things people want. 

Isn't that what most people look for in a relationship?

Someone who can accept the good and the bad?

A relationship is all about compromise right?

Give & take. That's what everyone says. 

Companionship, another intangible good that is wanted by many.

Someone to be there whenever your world's tumbling down. 

Someone to share happy times & sad times as well. 

Lastly, someone to love.

Loving someone and being loved back is the best thing in the world. 

So be brave enough, take a chance and express your love or else be ready to watch that someone love someone else.

Love brings many good things. 

Love has everything in it. 

Companionship, acceptance, comfort, love, joy, and lots more. 

It also has the necessary obstacles for the relationship to grow so don't expect a relationship to be smooth all the time cause every relationship is bound to have a few disagreements on certain things. 

And when that happens, of course it'll include disappointment, sadness and all. 

Like I said earlier, love has everything in it. 

But what do you do when it's on and off?

Some relationships are like that.

One day it might seem like forever is just within your reach but the next day, it might not even exist anymore.

It's like hot & cold. 

Like an ON and OFF button :O

And with this you can instantly tell that the component that is missing here is stability.

It may be communication problem or just some simple misunderstanding.

It's not the end of the world don't worry. 

All is well if solved the proper way :)

The best resort is to pray. 

Pray for a calm mind before blurting out words that may hurt.

And when the mind is already calm, there's that rational thinking without the interference of overwhelming emotions.

Always remember this one thing, whether you're in a relationship or not, never take anything for granted & appreciate what you have no matter how little it might be. 

Some other people in the world are worse off. 

Little blessings like having water to drink & food to eat are meant to be appreciated.

And I'm serious about not taking things for granted. 

The people who've been there for you, thank them.

Doesn't matter if they've only been there for you once, they still did help you through.

And if you have someone putting you as their priority, don't ever think they'll always be there for you because the truth is, people get tired of waiting to be appreciated.

The illusion of one who will always be there should be wiped away because we don't know what might happen the next day. 

There were too many cases of people regretting not appreciating the little things done.

So take this moment to think. Think of those people who have been there at a certain period of time to help, to listen and to comfort.

Be thankful & never look down on the little things.

It's the little things in life that make up the bigger picture :)

Appreciate what you have to day & you'll find that you'll feel more satisfied :)

And in the end, you'll feel happier :)